It has been 100 days since I last posted and so much has happened in that time. It is amazing, life goes on pretty much the same for years, then in a few months everything all changes. I have to admit that the need for change has been building in my life for a few years now, so in some ways these last months have been a good thing as they are sorting out a lot of issues, but did it all have to happen at once!!! I know these things are sent to test us and make us stronger, but really how strong do we need to be!
Over five years ago I left my house in Castlemaine, came to Melbourne with my mother and moved in with my sister and her two children. My father had just passed away and Mum was in her eighties and blind so we needed to care for her. My niece and nephew were at high school and as my sister is a single mother it also gave her some support with raising the kids.
Well five years later my niece has finished her Masters and has a new job, she has moved out of home with her partner and my nephew still at Uni, is moving out as well. Child raising responsibilities over, we no longer need the big house in the suburbs. Mum is slowly declining and will need more care than we can provide soon as her memory and sight continues to fail.
Then the companies I (and my sister) work for are in serious trouble, government funding changes and we are no longer viable and two out of the three companies go into liquidation. So for many months we have not been sure if the next pay day will be the last as we scramble to find a way forward.
As you can imagine everything was up in the air and changes needed to be made. I will not bore you with the details but after three months of struggle we have a solution. We are moving back to Castlemaine, thankfully the property never sold and was rented out, I will be working part time and Mum is slowly being transitioned into care up here.
So in the end it will be a great outcome. Children happy and independent, mother having her care requirements met and my sister and I have ongoing employment and will be sharing the property, which has two houses on a large block. Loads of time for art and to get serious in selling and a garden to play in. There is even room for some chooks and a vege patch. We will move at the end of the month and I am so excited by the possibilities before me.
So I apologies for my lack of communication but am looking forward to sharing my new life with you as I can devote so much more time to my art and sharing it with my friends.